On tisha Baav I watched the film and listened to the podcast and was extremely inspired but I couldn’t think of anyone I had to forgive or apologize too. That night I heard my 12 yr old sister in law discussing the video with her friends and she was telling them how she reached out to a camp friend to ask for forgiveness, that made me realize that if she can do it then I can probably think harder of something I can do. I thought about it and remembered that a couple years back I thoughtlessly made a very hurtful comment to my then older single brother. This week before Rosh Hashanah I spoke to him and apologized, he didn’t remember the comment but I did and i felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders when he forgave me. May charlotte’s neshama have an Aliya.