We had a big family friends chevra. One couple specifically got mad at all of us and really talked bad about us whenever they could. They are no longer friends with our group and I’ve really seen over the years how they would repeat a story that happened and I was there when the story happened and what they were saying wasn’t true…instead of thinking they were lying I just would think they just really have a different perception of what went down and they were always the one wronged. They never were able to see that they were in the wrong..never. fast forward 4 years. We are all no longer friends with them but when we see them I always feel uchy inside..because they think we are all in the wrong. Recently the wife just lost it and was screaming accusing us of something that wasn’t true…once again that’s her perception of things. I really wanted to answer back and scream back and say you guys are off ur rockers…instead I thought of shalom for Charlotte and sent her a whole message saying it didn’t matter what really went down she obviously has resentment built up from all these years and that I hope she forgives us. I took all the blame because I know she can’t do that right now and I was the bigger person..Lielui nishamas ur beautiful Charlotte. Hashem should give ur family and binny family tremendous strength.