Hi, I was truly inspired by the Herzberg to choose shalom here is my story:
I was planning on going on vacation with a friend in the summer and a little before she totally canceled and chose to go with a different friend. I realized right away if I get really upset we probably won’t stay friends and I realized it just wasn’t worth it. I forgave her completely and now we are regular friends again. I do not know how this would have turned out if I hadn’t watched the Tisha bav film you are a true inspiration to everyone in Klal Yisrael!!!