My brother and sister in law were cold, distant and it seems upset with me for not being able to be as hands are as they are in taking care of matters for emptying my mother’s home who currently lives in an assistant living/ independent living place – because I live in Israel and they live near her. When my parents needed to be moved to this place I offered to move them to Israel but my brother ( who likes to be the one in control) insisted they live near him. When I come in I spend all my time with my mother. I always offer to handle anything I can from Israel and when I am in.
My sister in law became sick recently and I only found out from someone else accidentally about two weeks after it happened. I reached out to show my care and offer support without getting much response from my brother and no response from my sister in law. I continued to text my support and concern. When I came in I asked if I could visit whenever it was good for them… wasn’t given the ok to come for the almost three weeks of being there. I left very hurt.
Because of your movement I have continued to show my support and concern and put my inner feelings aside and rise above.
I will continue to try to this in any situations that arise that make me feel hurt by others.