I had a friend who was silently being really hurtful for a long time like she wasn’t saying anything outright mean, but was silently doing things that were very hurtful and I realized that it’s time for me to stop investing in such a friendship that keeps hurting me. I didn’t answer her call for over a week because I just couldn’t talk to her and over this week, I kept thinking just do it for Charlotte do it for Charlotte and this morning I did it. I gave her a call back. a step in the right direction. I’m reminding myself that everything that happens it’s really a reflection of Hashem doing it and nobody could do anything to you unless He wills it. Maybe I won’t have that close relationship, but as long as we’re biShalom that could work. I am constantly telling myself do it for charlotte and all day different things come up that a person can be frustrated or upset by but I keep thinking of you and reminding myself to just let things go and my life is so different! Her neshama should have an Aliyah!