I’ve been struggling with resentment and holding a grudge against a really good friend of mine for a while now. We’ve been best friends since we were 2 years old and now we’re almost 20. She just seems to get everything she wants all the time. We were competing for the same spot in a special college program and of course, she got it. That was almost a year ago and I still haven’t found it in myself to be happy for her. I resent her. I really do hold a grudge against her for it. But not anymore. In the zchus of Charlotte, I’m going to choose Shalom. I’m going to try with everything in me to just be happy for my friend.