I have a very close friend who brought up a very raw fresh issue in an insensitive way then doubled down. Didn’t feel like talking to this person or trying to fix it. Why should I? But I spoke to another friend about it and he informed me of this cause and after reading some of the stories it persuaded me to make an effort to speak to the person and tell him how it hurt me. While we didn’t see eye to eye on all the issues previously discussed. I no longer feel the anger in my heart towards them and i can understand while the execution was largely flawed the logic was based in love and progress and I can move forward positively with that