Im sure you hear many stories like this, but a friend and I were discussing being annoyed with another one of our close friends about something that we felt wasn’t right. After, when I spoke to the 2nd friend, she made another small comment and then continued on as if she was right- initially I was so annoyed bc it wasn’t right- my immediate reaction was to call the 1st friend and tell her that she did it again and really I wanted to, But I held myself back from continuing it when I remembered shalom for Charlotte. I feel so good for holding back and not continuing a fight, and it’s all because of Charlotte. This is just a small seemingly insignificant story, but it had such an effect on me, getting me to start working on this Middah. she is really changing lives.