I reached out to a friend of mine who I used to be really close to in zechus for Charlotte. Neither of us held a grudge towards each other but I felt there were things that were never spoken about or feelings that were unresolved. I also think that making shalom doesn’t have to be a situation where I have major machlokes with someone or haven’t spoken to someone in 5 years – I realized that throughout the day when I’m about to say loshon hara about someone or about to get upset at someone, stopping myself is making shalom. I’ve done it many times where I’m about to say loshon hara or about to get angry at someone, and I think of charlotte and say I’m going to stop myself and instead of having sinas chinum I’m going to have ahavas chinum for an Aliya neshmasa for Shaindel Bas Yehuda Leib and for the whole family to have a Nechama.