I made a really close friend in seminary or so i thought until i found out she told the head of sem something about me that wasn’t true in the slightest- i had NEVER done and….My world almost ended. I was almost thrown out of sem because of what my “best freind” lied about. I was yelled at and the head of sem said he would throw me out and so on ….and the head wouldn’t hear that it was FALSE !! To forgive her was so hard, especially since we were friends and i cared so much for her. So for me and my parents because the pain was so great it was challenging and i always wondered when would i have the courage to forgive her in my life since she almost ruined my reputation based on her nonsense at a stage in my life where i look forward to standing under the Chuppah Iy”h. I realized she obviously has some mental issue to do so and froze communication with her . But since i heard this story, that was the immediate answer and cleared all doubts and grudges i had about her . The story was so inspiring . Even though she kept asking me forgiveness i simply couldn’t even face her . And there i was forgiving the person who almost damaged my future life . In the zechus of beautiful Charlotte i had strength to do so .