I had a friend in my life that did something very painful to me . I was really hurt and i knew she had to be the one to apologize since i did nothing wrong!! A few months has passed and she still hasnt called me to apologize for what she did. I was sooooo hurt i couldnt sleep at night. After watching the letting go film i thought for a minute even if i was not the one who did something wrong, maybe i should be the one to take the first step. i knew this would be really hard for me. but i decided this will be for a zechus for charlotte A”H and some other things i needed in my life. So i made the phone call we spoke and after our short conversation we made peace with each other. We are not friends anymore however at least we forgave each other and left off on good terms instead of being in a fight.