I am part of a friend group of girls who are all a year older then me. There was one girl who never liked me and was always cold and ignored me for no apparent reason. I was respectful of her but mostly ignored her, too. I was thinking of writing her a letter before she left for seminary, but was nervous to. After watching the Tisha B’Av film, I knew I must write her a letter for our sake and as a Zechus for Charlotte. I wrote a nice letter telling this girl that I am sorry if I ever did something to her, and forgiving her, and asking if we can make shalom. I gave the letter to her the week before she left for seminary.