It never dawned on me that i’m still hurt by things people did or said to me. “Me? I’m not that type that doesn’t forgive poeple, i move on…” So I thought until your story brought awareness to me, that if so many people are taking the step to forgive others, and so many people have pain and hurt that they chose to move forward from, maybe I also have some grudges in me?
And I was shocked to discover how much hurt I was holding inside towards others.
This Yom Kippur I am taking the step to try to forgive those who have wronged me for it was anyways destined by Hashem that I should go through that, and being hurt at others is only hurting me. I hope I can forgive them with a full heart and your zechus is huge!!!
Lezchus refuah sheleima- Yaakov Elimelech Yitzchok ben Golda