Over the past year, I’ve had a hard time adjusting to new neighbors (with 9 children) living next door, especially since we share a driveway with cars coming in and out throughout the day. They spent about six months doing construction, and the noise, debris, and disruption were difficult to live with. It’s also hard to adjust to their children playing and running in the driveway on Shabbos afternoon (I enjoy a weekly nap time) as well as their bright lights that stay on all night (I guess they forget to turn it off before going to sleep).

Because of Charlotte, I chose to take the higher road and be kind, gracious, and accommodating toward them, even though it’s not always easy. I want to continue moving forward with that same spirit—not holding on to frustration or resentment but choosing Shalom.
Going forward, my hope is that we can live alongside one another in shalom- with mutual respect, kindness, consideration, and peace. I want to do my part to create an atmosphere where everyone feels comfortable and respected in the place we call home.