Few years ago, my wifes aunt and her husband made up some wrong information about me and were telling around to a lot of my friends and community. After realizing they were wrong , they called and texted me many times to apologize, but I decided I will have them fully out of my life. After watching How Rav Yudi Herzberg and his wife , my view changed dramatically and this Shabbat we are eating at my wife’s aunts house for lunch . May her neshama should have Aliya.